It’s never as easy as just finding some black jeans in your closet.
You have to be able to:
- get low to the ground for shots
- pick up gear and haul it around a venue
- keep cool when it’s super hot and the ceremony is 30 minutes
- bend over while still being modest/professional
- look business-like but still cute??
- stay comfortable and not add any stress to your already tired muscles
After 8 years of fine-tuning my wardrobe, I suggest having a couple of longer dresses, comfortable shoes and some flexible pants. Working in Florida, it’s especially important that my wardrobe, while still being black, helps me to stay cool.
It’s a fine balance because you want to show up to a wedding day looking like a professional. Sometimes, it’s hard to walk into a room and people don’t realize you’re a qualified woman with a legitimate business. But I also don’t want to walk in too professional and not feel cute! So here’s a few options I’ve found that work, and always receive compliments.
Madewell Leather Pants
These have recently been a crowd favorite when it’s chilly! Do not recommend when it’s hot outside, as these are lined on the inside.
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Athleta Black Stretchy Pants
I’ve been wearing these pants for years and they’re truly the best. I have them in forest green and black and I always feel cuter than leggings but they’re so stretchy and not hot at all. Makes moving in weird positions much easier. Before I started wearing a fanny pack, I would just use these with all their awesome hidden pockets. I started with the Skyline but they recently got rid of them so I found a few more options!
Cute Blazer or Sweater
I don’t mind getting a little funky at the reception, which is usually when I need a second layer on. I have a white striped one, a black cardigan, a pale blue blazer, and some other fun but neutral sweaters.
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Basic Stretchy Bodysuit
I keep it very basic on the top as to be the least distracting. If I get fun, I will wear a neutral tan pant/romper but I always just stick with a black bodysuit! They’re easy, stretchy, and I can always wear a sports bra underneath.
Black Bodysuit Short Sleeve
Black Racerback Tanktop Bodysuit
Black Square Neck Long Sleeve Bodysuit
Comfortable Dress
When I know the day will be more black tie, I don’t want to show up in pants that are on the verge of sweatpants. This is why I’ve added a few black midi dresses to my wardrobe.
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Shoes
Our price range for weddings is $3500-5000 typically, so I have found that I can get away with nice leather tennis shoes. As I work my way up, I will probably need to change my shoes out as well. I often have ankle troubles, so this is what works best for me.
In the winter, I often wear black boots and in the summer, I will wear black sandals and change into tennis shoes for the reception if I need to.
Nike Women’s Court Vision Altas
This is a pair I’ve had my eye on for a minute and would definitely consider for nicer weddings!
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